Moses R. Tilley came across
the Oregon Trail in 1852 with his parents,
Abram and
Sarah Tilley, who are also
buried in this cemetery. In 1853 Abram Tilley settled on Scatter
Creek 5 miles west of Tenino near Grand Mound on the stage route
between Olympia and Monticello. Here he ran a hotel, known to
all travelers going north and south, particularly those farmers
on their way to Tumwater where they would have their wheat
ground into flour. Tilley Road is named for Abram Tilley.
Moses lived with his parents even after he married
Rachel Leonard in 1860. He
became the mail carrier between Monticello and Olympia, a job he
held for 10 years. Eventually Moses and his family moved to
Olympia, where he became involved in a variety of businesses
such as a livery stable and grocery store. He also speculated in
land and businesses, including businesses in Tumwater. In 1879
he served in the territorial legislature, but the next year he
became sick. He journeyed as far as Buffalo, New York to seek a
cure with no success. He died in 1881.
According to the Washington Standard his death "cast a shadow of
gloom over this and many other communities ... [he] was a
pioneer in the broadest acceptation of the term, having
contributed with untiring industry to advance the interests of
the people at a time when muscle and energy were required to get
the ball of progress in motion." His business ventures had
allowed him to accumulate enough wealth to accommodate his wife
and children more than adequately.
His wife, Rachel, whose grave reads "Mother", followed him in
death just 6 years later in 1887. Although left with wealth, she
had difficulty managing money. According to her obituary, "Many
have been the occasions in which she has aided those in
embarrassment and distress and the result has been that a large
proportion of the competence left at the death her husband ...
has been dispensed by a hand more controlled by the heart than
the head, leaving her almost destitute at the time of her
death." One of those "embarrassments" was an unsuccessful
attempt to defend her brother against a charge of murder.
Moses and Rachel had 4 children, 3 sons and a daughter. 2 of the
sons join them in this cemetery:
Guy and Miles. The most
famous of their children, though, was their daughter, May. May's
beauty was legendary. On a trip to New York she won the heart of
a wealthy doctor. When he died, he left her a large estate. The
combination of beauty and wealth overwhelmed a German count. May
became the Countess Stavra and moved to Europe. She died in
Paris in 1910.